My name is Alexa and I’m twenty-years old. I believe my best friend fell for my boyfriend.
My boyfriend and I have been together for nine months. We met in college, where we completed our first year.
Maria is my best friend and I have known each other since childhood. We have never been apart except for college when we chose different paths.
Maria knew my boyfriend before we were together. She never said that she was attracted to him. Maria did have a boyfriend at that time, but they had an argument. For about a month, I feel like she was in love with my boyfriend. I don’t know what to do.
She asks me all the time what I’m doing. She even plans outings with 3 of us (her, my boyfriend and her) to coffee shops or clubs. It was hard to believe that she was having a bad time. She had broken up with her boyfriend, and she didn’t want to be alone.
However, I am struck by her caring and open-mindedness. She is also interested in his personal life, is curious about it, and flirts with him. It isn’t surprising that no one has been able to find the perfect solution. It’s just me trying to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend and best friend.
What should I do next? What should I do? Should I first talk to my girlfriend and confront her? Or talk to my boyfriend directly and express my fears to him? Because I care deeply about him, I don’t think they could be together.
However, I feel that Maria isn’t really my friend because she can feel for my boyfriend. Isn’t it important to her that we be friends? Is there any way to save my friendship and love?
“I want to thank you from the bottom my heart!”